Admit it or not, at some point of our lives, we tried to please someone. of course, there are a lot of reason why. First, to fit in the environment. Second, to be accepted. And third, to be loved or to be liked. However, reality tell us that you can’t please everyone no matter how hard you try.
Some will like you, love you, but on the other hand, some will hate you or to extent loathe you. But remember, we can still be happy, even someone doesn’t like us. Hating someone isn’t healthy and should not be an attitude of a person.
I remember doing everything just to be loved by everyone. Doing good, and making people laugh. I was really making a great effort just to be loved. To the point of sacrificing my own happiness, so that people on my environment would not judge or criticize me. I was afraid to hear criticism against me, if I did wrong.
But at the end of the day, God taught me of becoming a better person from the painful and heartbreaking words that I have heard. You can’t really please everybody and you should not change who you are just to be loved. So the most important is being yourself. Just be yourself.