To conform and fit in or to be original and be a trend setter? To be yourself or to be that which others want you to be? Good questions that we all face many times throughout our lives. Problem with total conformity is you lose a part of your personality and self in the process. To be bold and original comes at some risk as well, but at least you will be true to yourself. I guess it all boils down to if you want to lead or if you rather be follower, There is need for both types in our world. Even a follower type can be original and maintain their self-identity during the following process.
Be a dreamer, an architect of your life and your environment, don’t let your environment be the architect of your life. Free will is the key and choosing not to be a victim of circumstance is how you gain control of your life.